Success is important to us as human beings. A sense of success elevates the human spirit and results in that elusive tonic: happiness.
At present the general trend of thinking regarding success and happiness is that it hinges upon acquiring a certain [large] sum of money. This sum is not specified, but it is certainly more than we/I possess at present.
However, true success is not measured in the possessions we acquire. Rather, it is best measured in being in possession of ONESELF rather than the acquisition of material possessions.
When things are permitted to become the purpose of life, happiness will likely be displaced with the worries that accompany possessiveness, whatever its expression. [Whether things or people!]
So then how can we summarize what leads to human happiness? Self-respect and self-love, supported by freedom and fulfillment are constituent parts of happiness for many. Some claim that their happiness came part and parcel with large sums of money.
But if happiness could only come in the company of money, it would not be experienced by many. As we know, most children and many people embody and emanate happiness with no exertion.
People with less could have no success if large sums of money were required. And all people below some arbitrary level of earning would automatically be excluded from happiness. You see how ridiculous it becomes, and very quickly.
Yet, generally speaking, a person requires some degree of financial success in order to have the essential elements of life often associated with happiness. e.g. – food, shelter, clothing.
There is little doubt that those who encourage people to seek great wealth in their quest for self-love, self-respect, freedom and fulfillment offer a means to happiness; a certain kind of happiness.
But many people possess neither the ability nor the desire nor the resources to sell cosmetics, make wise financial investments, buy and sell real estate, invent a better mousetrap, move in the desirable social circles, et cetera.
Most people would agree that happiness is something that is accessible. This universal belief prompted the Framers of the U.S. Constitution to guarantee the Right to pursue this precious treasure: happiness.
Among the countless thousands of people I have known there were only a few who believed they did not deserve to be happy. [Those few were generally afflicted with a severe mental illness.] There is a universal belief that we each “deserve” to be happy.
It also seems to be universally accepted that happiness does not depend upon wealth, possessions, titles, positions, accomplishment, fame, acclaim, productivity, or the satisfaction of passions or appetites.
The common wisdom has an uncanny tendency to be proven correct. I have encountered happy people by the hundreds, perhaps thousands. And I can honestly say that happiness has graced my own life to a surprising degree. But let it be said that I have relentlessly sought after happiness throughout my life.
Through trial and error, through listening to the advice of happy people, through reading their thoughts in books and reading their lives, I have learned something about this wonderful possession among possessions.
It can be found and enjoyed a good deal of the time. And there are times, for the growth and evolution of the soul, when it must be absent.
Ecclesiastes: “To enjoy our work in the company of the companion we love, this is happiness, peace, contentment.”
One author wrote that Success can bring Happiness:
Success
To laugh often and love much
To win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
To earn the appreciation
of honest critics and endure
the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty
To find the best in others;
To leave the world
a bit better, whether
by a healthy child,
a garden patch
or a redeemed social condition;
To know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived
That is to have succeeded.
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